The Best Principles For Raising Children-Part 3

in continuation of my previous articles on the above title, it's now the third stage .ie. The Best Principles For Raising Children related to parents, here Now I am going to tell you ten short points which will help you in

training your children.

#1. Give the child a chance to choose:-

The first point is where ever you are it's quite necessary to Give The Chance To Your Child To Choose

, for example, if there are too many foods on the dining table you just need to ask your child what would you like to eat? or ask your child what do you want to wear today, or which one is your favorite color, etc. it improves your child confidence level and creates wisdom. Same if you are sitting in the car you just need to ask him where do you want to sit? or which game you like to play? so in the beginning, if you will give him chance to choose his choices in everything this will improve his decision power.

#2. Don't Force Your Child On What To Do:-

The second point is Don't Force Your Child On What To Do if at some point your child doesn't come to work, don't get angry. you just need to think at this stage his brain is not giving him the signal to do so, that's why he isn't doing what you are forcing him. At this time be patient take a cool breath and then wait for the good time and then next time tell him about it again.

#3. Want Him To Do Something Give Him An Example:-

The third point is if you want your child To Do Something Give Him An Example by your child show him an example like if you want him to sit like this you need to sit in front of him the way you want him to sit like you, or the way you want him to eat like you did you have to show him the way you are eating and now him to do it. when the child sees an example then he tries to do so and now it's very easy for him. Usually, mothers instruct their child to eat with a spoon or instruct their child don't drop the meal on the floor and do not demonstrate to the child the correct method those mothers are wrong instead of instructing their children. first guide your child teach him and then the child will be able to do so whatever you want.

#4. Protect Your Child From Screen Viewing:-

The fourth and most important point is that to Protect Your Child From Screen Viewing the child’s brain has filters that do not work to start and store the receiving signals. The research of scientists shows that before the period of two years of age the parents need not allow any kind of screen to their children i.e. TV, IPAD, Mobile Phone, etc. if the child will use screen before he reaches the age of two years his brain will capture all those things and he adopts these things in his real life. And at the end of the day mothers claims that their child fights and is stubborn. So in the beginning keep your child away from using any type of screen.

#5. Appreciate Your Child:-

The fifth point is Appreciate Your Child when your child does something good or according to your wish appreciate him there are several ways to appreciate your child i.e. kiss him, hug him or smile at him, etc. only toys are not appreciated or requirements of a child the above-mentioned tips are also a good source. Further, it has also been observed that most of the times mothers say NO. No. every time and if we list it the results would be about a hundred times No. per day. and this time and again No. word creates a resist disease.

#6. Tell Your Child Your Schedule Before The Time:-

The sixth point is to Tell Your Child About The Time Coming day's schedule for example you are going for an outing or some guests are coming so tell your child about it and he will be prepared for it and if you do not inform him before and suddenly you will go out or the guest will arrive then he will react and we will blame him that our child is stubborn. But actually, these are our faults, not his.

#7. Eat Together:-

The seventh point is always Eati Together it will allow your child to learn more about eating he will learn from his father mother sister brother and from all those who are eating at the same table this is an informal education of a child.

#8. Keep Precious Things Away From The Child:-

The eighth point is to Keep Precious Things Away From The Child in your home in a way where your child can play easily and keep away those things that are made of glass or a material that can be broken easily or tiny things which can be swallowed. Because the child will first put the thing in his mouth and will taste it then will hold it in his hands to check whether the thing is hard or smooth but he doesn't know that this is made of glass then he will throw it on the ground to know how it sounds and in the result, he will break that thing because he is passing through his learning period. So keep away such things out of his reach and create space for him to play.

#9. Become A Role Model For Children:-

Children love to mimic what they see their elders doing so Become Role Models For Children they try to do whatever their parents do in front of them they try to speak whatever their parents speak in front of them so be careful in front of your children.

#10. Always Treat Your Child With Love:-

The tenth and last point are Always Treat Your Child With Love every child has its thoughts and you can't estimate this. So always deal with your child with love

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